What's really out there?

I've been wondering lately what causes someone to reject totally committing to Christ? I know that I havn't always been saved and living a life devoted to God. However, I was wondering what's the thing that keeps people from at least trying the church life. I know that there's the club life, drugs, sex, friends, alcohol, pornography, etc that could all be a strong hold on someone trying to live for God. But I just wonder if the influences or distractions towards people young and old is so strong that they are not able to see that Christ is soon to return. It seems that after a certain length of time those things would even grow boring, nonstimulating, and unappealling. I just don't get it. Sometimes you hear folks say that they aren't ready to come to church until they are ready to let things go. I would beg that one to come anyway rather they are weak or strong. It's a trick of the enemy to have someone think that they have to have things all ready to go before they accept Christ. The times are so wicked now that I have an uneasing fear for those who don't know Christ. I've decided to ask questions more and more, what's the distraction? Why does the world seem to sell it's products better than the church? What's really out there?